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But as timegoes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the wholelife will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love.All this needs a very big mind.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love We alwaysthink that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing inthe world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize thatit's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but infact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time. \u3000\u3000<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. Andthen begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to loveor how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will comeout, but this kind of waiting is the love itself<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">.\u3000\u3000<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">Idon't think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's theleast. And then be a simple man.\u3000\u3000<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. \u3000<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.\u3000<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: &#039;Courier New&#039;;color: #990033\">Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights inone's hand. 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