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\u6700\u660e\u667a\u7684\u9009\u62e9<\/strong><\/p>\n If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.----Maya Angelou<\/em><\/p>\n \u4e00\u4e2a\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\uff0c\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6000\u624d\u4e0d\u9047\uff0c\u6709\u4f4d\u8001\u4eba\u542c\u4e86\u4ed6\u7684\u906d\u9047\uff0c\u968f\u5373\u628a\u4e00\u7c92\u6c99\u5b50\u6254\u5728\u6c99\u6ee9\u4e0a\uff0c\u8bf4\uff1a\u201c\u8bf7\u628a\u5b83\u627e\u56de\u6765\u3002\u201d\uff0c\u201c\u8fd9\u600e\u4e48\u53ef\u80fd\uff1f\u201d\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u8bf4\u9053\uff0c\u63a5\u7740\u8001\u4eba\u53c8\u628a\u4e00\u9897\u73cd\u73e0\u6254\u5230\u6c99\u6ee9\u4e0a\uff0c\u201c\u90a3\u73b0\u5728\u5462\uff1f\u201d\u4ed6\u8bf4\u3002<\/p>\n \u2014\u2014\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u53ea\u662f\u6c99\u6ee9\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u7c92\u6c99\uff0c\u90a3\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u82db\u6c42\u522b\u4eba\u6ce8\u610f\u4f60\u3001\u8ba4\u53ef\u4f60\u3002\u5982\u679c\u8981\u522b\u4eba\u8ba4\u53ef\u4f60\uff0c\u90a3\u4f60\u5c31\u60f3\u529e\u6cd5\u5148\u8ba9\u81ea\u5df1\u53d8\u6210\u4e00\u9897\u73cd\u73e0\u3002<\/p>\n \u65e0\u8bba\u4f60\u60f3\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u5c31\u505a<\/strong><\/p>\n \u8457\u540d\u753b\u5bb6\u67ef\u7f57\uff0c\u4e3a\u4e00\u4f4d\u5e74\u8f7b\u753b\u5bb6\u6307\u51fa\u4e86\u8fd9\u4f4d\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u4f5c\u54c1\u9700\u8981\u6539\u8fdb\u7684\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u201c\u8c22\u8c22\u60a8\uff0c\u201d\u5e74\u8f7b\u753b\u5bb6\u8bf4\uff0c\u201c\u660e\u5929\u6211\u5c31\u5c06\u5b83\u5168\u90e8\u4fee\u6539\u3002\u201d\u67ef\u7f57\u6fc0\u52a8\u7684\u8bf4\uff1a\u201c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u662f\u660e\u5929\uff0c\u8981\u662f\u4f60\u4eca\u665a\u5c31\u6b7b\u4e86\u5462\uff1f\u201d<\/p>\n \u2014\u2014\u4f60\u4e5f\u8bb8\u4f1a\u6ede\u7559\u539f\u5730\uff0c\u4f46\u65f6\u95f4\u7edd\u5bf9\u4e0d\u4f1a\u3002\uff08You may delay, but time will not\uff09 \u4f60\u5fc5\u987b\u7528\u624b\u4e2d\u7684\u724c\u73a9\u4e0b\u53bb<\/strong><\/p>\n \u827e\u68ee\u8c6a\u5a01\u5c14\u5e74\u8f7b\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u6b21\u548c\u5bb6\u4eba\u73a9\u724c\uff0c\u4ed6\u8fde\u7eed\u51e0\u6b21\u90fd\u62ff\u5230\u5f88\u7cdf\u7cd5\u7684\u724c\uff0c\u60c5\u7eea\u975e\u5e38\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u6001\u5ea6\u4e5f\u5f00\u59cb\u6076\u52a3\u8d77\u6765\u3002\u5979\u6bcd\u4eb2\u89c1\u72b6\u8bf4\u4e86\u6bb5\u4ee4\u4ed6\u523b\u9aa8\u94ed\u5fc3\u7684\u8bdd\uff1a\u201c\u4f60\u5fc5\u987b\u7528\u4f60\u624b\u4e2d\u7684\u724c\u73a9\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u5c31\u597d\u6bd4\u4eba\u751f\uff0c\u53d1\u724c\u7684\u662f\u4e0a\u5e1d\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u662f\u600e\u6837\u7684\u724c\uff0c\u4f60\u90fd\u5fc5\u987b\u62ff\u7740\uff0c\u4f60\u6240\u505a\u7684\u5c31\u662f\u5c3d\u4f60\u5168\u529b\uff0c\u6c42\u5f97\u6700\u597d\u7684\u7ed3\u679c\u3002\u201d<\/p>\n Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal. Nothing on earth can help the man with\u00a0the wrong attitude.\u00a0\u2014\u2014Thomas Jefferson<\/em><\/p>\n \u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u5728\u4f60\u7684\u5c3e\u5df4\u4e0a<\/strong><\/p>\n All happiness depends on courage and work.\u00a0\u2014\u2014Balzac<\/em><\/p>\n \u6709\u4e00\u53ea\u5c0f\u72ee\u5b50\u95ee\u6bcd\u4eb2\uff1a\u201c\u5988\u5988\uff0c\u5e78\u798f\u5728\u54ea\u91cc\uff1f\u201d\u6bcd\u4eb2\u8bf4\uff1a\u201c\u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u5728\u4f60\u7684\u5c3e\u5df4\u4e0a\u554a\u3002\u201d\u4e8e\u662f\uff0c\u5c0f\u72ee\u5b50\u8f6c\u8d77\u4e86\u5708\uff0c\u8ffd\u7740\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5c3e\u5df4\u3002\u6bcd\u72ee\u5b50\u7b11\u7740\u8bf4\uff1a\u201c\u5b69\u5b50\uff0c\u5e78\u798f\u4e0d\u662f\u90a3\u6837\u5f97\u5230\u7684\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u4f60\u6602\u9996\u5411\u524d\u8d70\uff0c\u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u4f1a\u4e00\u76f4\u8ddf\u7740\u4f60\u3002\u201d<\/p>\n \u4f60\u53ea\u80fd\u4e0d\u505c\u5730\u524d\u8fdb<\/strong><\/p>\n 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\u201c\u6700\u8d5a\u94b1\u7684\u597d\u5730\u76d8\u201d\u540c\u6837\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u201c\u98ce\u5e73\u6d6a\u9759\u7684\u5c0f\u6e2f\u6e7e\u201d\uff0c\u90a3\u4f4d\u4f19\u4f34\u505c\u7559\u5728\u90a3\u91cc\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u6709\u4e9b\u6cbe\u6cbe\u81ea\u559c\uff0c\u5374\u6ca1\u6709\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u624d\u534e\uff0c\u6f5c\u529b\uff0c\u524d\u7a0b\u5168\u90fd\u88ab\u8fd9\u5757\u201c\u6700\u8d5a\u94b1\u7684\u597d\u5730\u76d8\u201d\u846c\u9001\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n \u4f60\u8981\u9001\u6211\u7684\u5c0f\u9a6c\u5c31\u5728\u9644\u8fd1<\/strong><\/p>\n Nothing is good or bad but our thinking make it so.\u00a0\u2014\u2014Shakespeare<\/em><\/p>\n \u5982\u4f55\u83b7\u5f97\u4e50\u89c2\u7684\u5fc3\u6001\uff1a<\/p>\n \u2014\u2014\u7528\u4f60\u7684\u884c\u52a8\u53bb\u5f71\u54cd\u4f60\u7684\u5fc3\u6001 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